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Sun, Apr. 13th, 2008, 10:12 pm
sealinesca: Looking to meet some open minded people

I've spent the day looking for groups and places to meet some open minded Scadians. Anyone have any recommendations? 

Thanks, Sealine

Mon, Apr. 14th, 2008 01:21 pm (UTC)
purpura

This isn't the most active of communitites... So I'd say stir up some conversation here and see what happens!

Mon, Apr. 14th, 2008 03:24 pm (UTC)
sealinesca: Not sure how to stir things up :)

Anyone going to Pennsic? I went last year but didn't really meet many new people.

Mon, Apr. 14th, 2008 07:22 pm (UTC)
paquerette: Re: Not sure how to stir things up :)

We've generally had pretty good luck at Pennsic. Just never assume that anyone is poly right off the bat. Some people are open for flirting or party making out in their relationships but nothing else. It can get confusing.

Mon, Apr. 14th, 2008 09:45 pm (UTC)
sealinesca: Re: Not sure how to stir things up :)

I'm not necessarily looking to scoop someone (not that that would be bad), but I am looking for people I can be open with, just hang with a bit. I spent a fairbit of time last year at Pennsic just wandering on my own.

Mon, Apr. 14th, 2008 10:28 pm (UTC)
paquerette: Re: Not sure how to stir things up :)

Ah, okay. And one of the downfalls of meeting people at Pennsic is that any relationships end up being long distance. Sometimes ridiculously so.

In years past, there was a poly party. I never made it there though, and it hasn't been going on lately. Maybe someone should reinstigate that.

Mon, Apr. 14th, 2008 11:55 pm (UTC)
sealinesca: Re: Not sure how to stir things up :)

I wouldn't be opposed to scooping at Pennsic :), but that's not what I'm looking for specifically.

My big problem is that I'm rather shy when it comes to this type of thing.

Mon, Apr. 21st, 2008 11:11 am (UTC)
liamstliam: Re: Not sure how to stir things up :)

I've never made it to the poly party, either.

We also talk about it and plan it, but it tends to fall through or only have a limited number of people there.

There are some play parties that tend to draw a poly crowd, but they are a little under the radar unless you know they are happening.

I find Pennsic hookups to be a lot of fun (no, I have not had that many), and there are some folks I only see at Pennsic, which makes it kind of cool.