Just thought I'd introduce myself. See my profile page for more details. I've been in and out of the SCA for about 7 years. My fiancé and I have just decided to open our relationship up after a lot of time talking and thinking about it.
Mostly here for learning, support, and discussion.
At this point my main concerns are:
1. Finding singles and couples interesting enough that we can be friends without being involved romantically (we're more polysexual than polyamorous).
2. He's a bit shy when it comes to hitting on women and I don't want him to always feel left out but I also don't want to feel like I'm doing his work for him [once she's interested he's fine :) ]